Why us the lesbos?

March 3, 2006: The vicious murder of Zoliswa Nkonyana, a lesbian killed by a mob in a Cape Flats township, points to the brutal reality that despite constitutional protections, lesbians in South Africa continue to experience egregious assaults on their human rights, Human Rights Watch said today.
Human Rights Watch called on the South African government to ensure that their ongoing investigation of the murder is thorough, effective, and capable of leading to the successful identification, prosecution, and punishment of all those responsible. According to local media reports, six young men have been arrested and charged with murder. Human Rights Watch also called on the authorities to provide police protection to Nkonyana’s friends and to other lesbians who are at risk of violence in the wake of the attack.
Nkonyana, a 19-year old lesbian from the Khayelitsha township near Cape Town, was walking near her home February 4 with a lesbian friend. The friend said they were confronted by a schoolgirl who taunted them for being “tomboys” who “wanted to be raped.” A mob of young men gathered around them. Nkonyana’s friend ran away, but the mob caught Nkonyana. They beat her with golf clubs, threw bricks at her, and stabbed her. She died in the hospital shortly thereafter.
“Lesbians in South Africa face abuse and violence simply for not fitting social expectations of how women should look and act,” said Jessica Stern, researcher for Human Rights Watch’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights Program. “Ten years ago, South Africa enacted the world’s first constitution to protect against discrimination based on sexual orientation. Today it’s both tragic and telling that Zoliswa Nkonyana still could not be safe in her own neighborhood.”
The friend of Zoliswa who fled the attack has been in hiding, fearing for her life. A photograph of Nkonyana and three other women was published in the South African weekly newspaper The Sunday Times. Those friends are now also at risk of violence.
In 1996, South Africa became the first country to include sexual orientation in its constitution as a status protected from discrimination. Significant legal progress has followed, including the Constitutional Court’s decision on December 1 to open full marriage rights to same-sex couples. However, amid a crisis of expanding violent crime and sexual assault of women, evidence suggests that lesbians may be particularly targeted for brutal repression in their families and communities.
In a joint report with the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission in 2003, Human Rights Watch documented patterns of violent harassment of lesbians and the particular vulnerability of black and mixed-race lesbians in South African townships. The report called on the South African government to undertake public education campaigns on sexual orientation and gender identity, and to create more effective mechanisms to hear complaints and counter discrimination and abuse.
“Zoliswa’s murder tragically shows that violence against lesbians continues,” said Stern. “The South African government must promote equality and diversity through public education to ensure lesbians’ right to security.”
Nkonyana’s funeral was attended by her partner and more than 400 people from the community. The first ever gay pride march in the township of Guguletu outside of Cape Town took place February 19 in her honor.

And then we get another death in Johannesburg, of a teen, just a teenager of age 16 years, she was still in matric, and she was used to be known as a champion. It was sad to be in that funeral, mainly seeing the baby dyke's crying and I believe they are asking themselves that where are they going? , I felt that i have seen enough and at a stage that I am in now, and lucky I have survived, she was going some where, she was going to make us proud and now she is gone. I put myself in her shoes, I see myself crying for help, and there is no one, I mean no one, even the family, friends, neighbours and even the dogs. We have sister who go out there and get raped, killed, assaulted and discriminated. I ask myself that why us, where are we going from here? keeping quite wont help, nor speaking wont help, but what can we do?. her funeral took place April 21 and I expected a number of lesbian women there, but it was just to little (minorities as always), I also expected support from other organisation and still did not see any (only OUT-LGBT Well being and AIDS Consortium), and we say in solidarity with the women who speak out. I hope that with all the love we say we have, and all the anger we say we have, with all the changes we want to make in our country, we should learn by mistakes, and stand for one another. only God know why us, not only us (lesbian women) but women in general. We should get together and try to take care of ourlives because people are destroying ourlives. Why us?, why cant we be ourselves than to be afraid all the time.

sources: Behind the mask (february 2006)