Thursday 26 April 2007

The ROSE has THORNS


I light this candle

And say a prayer;

I light this candle Because we were not there,

(I'm sorry)

Zoliswa, Zoliswa; your flame alight

Zoliswa, Zoliswa; we lost you to this fight

On a bed of roses you were forced to lie

And it's on this bed of thorns,

Silently, and violently

they watched you die.


Quietly your father stood,

at the back door Watching in fear;

Saying he could do no more,

To stop the fists of rage

From pounding you into the floor.

His ignorance sealed your coffin

Into another gaping hate sore


love is patient

love is kind

it is not easily angered

and it is not blind

it has no fear,

it always protects and

its always near


twenty against one

forty feet kicking

twenty men against one woman,

forty fists punching

twenty straight men against one lesbian

twenty bodies of ignorance versus one body of understanding


silence;

an accomplice to this crime

apathy;

co-conspirators to this atrocity

forty legs kicking without opposition

is a community of legs kicking

and by this I mean

the township, as it currently stands,

is no place for gays and lesbians.

And no place for this kind of love.


Posted by Vanessa to MOVEMENT INSTEAD OF JUDGEMENT at 25/4/07 4:30 PM


Acknowledged by Mmapaseka "Steve" Letsike

Wednesday 25 April 2007

PASSIONS NOT PROBLEMS!


I wonder how many people think about what they need in life. You grow up having passion and thinking that it will come true, but not thinking how will you make it work. I believe it’s about hope, faith, wisdom and so on and on, we get to meet, inspiring people (celebrities and role models) and think that they have made it through, but do we ever ask them how did they get to that point? All we say is they are lucky to be there, and at this point of moment, life is too short, you have to make something out of it. I honestly think that when the day comes, the last day to say my goodbye’s, I would definitely leave a mark, a good mark that the baby dykes will follow my steps, and for that I assume and I know that will happen, jip with the help of God.

People always talk about problems, not necessary having to think about solutions and for that you will have passion to solve that problem. Problems are just little issues that needs to be resolved. And they need attention to b addressed, just don’t let it slide, because at the end you will regret that “why” and sometimes it is too late. I have a passion and that passion won’t create a problem, just a way forward to what I want and the rest will follow, I am one kind of person that will dig down and understand the problem and analyze it, then solve it, it either my way or the high way. I am a patient person, but sometime being patient sucks, you just have to go your way and get what you need.

Talking about majorities and minorities is like heterosexuals and homosexuals. We homosexual we always become target to other people, we become statistic to the others, why I don’t know, we end up being named, sketched, summarized, shaped and created as a frame work and the out comes of that is becoming a figure so that someone could earn and to be recognized. And what about us, I believe with every passion that we have, and trying by all means to get to where we want to be we can make it. We do not need to be problems nor to create problems for other people, but We only want live our passions.

LIVE YOUR LIFE, DON’T WORRY ABOUT TOMORROW

Why us the lesbos?


March 3, 2006: The vicious murder of Zoliswa Nkonyana, a lesbian killed by a mob in a Cape Flats township, points to the brutal reality that despite constitutional protections, lesbians in South Africa continue to experience egregious assaults on their human rights, Human Rights Watch said today.
Human Rights Watch called on the South African government to ensure that their ongoing investigation of the murder is thorough, effective, and capable of leading to the successful identification, prosecution, and punishment of all those responsible. According to local media reports, six young men have been arrested and charged with murder. Human Rights Watch also called on the authorities to provide police protection to Nkonyana’s friends and to other lesbians who are at risk of violence in the wake of the attack.
Nkonyana, a 19-year old lesbian from the Khayelitsha township near Cape Town, was walking near her home February 4 with a lesbian friend. The friend said they were confronted by a schoolgirl who taunted them for being “tomboys” who “wanted to be raped.” A mob of young men gathered around them. Nkonyana’s friend ran away, but the mob caught Nkonyana. They beat her with golf clubs, threw bricks at her, and stabbed her. She died in the hospital shortly thereafter.
“Lesbians in South Africa face abuse and violence simply for not fitting social expectations of how women should look and act,” said Jessica Stern, researcher for Human Rights Watch’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights Program. “Ten years ago, South Africa enacted the world’s first constitution to protect against discrimination based on sexual orientation. Today it’s both tragic and telling that Zoliswa Nkonyana still could not be safe in her own neighborhood.”
The friend of Zoliswa who fled the attack has been in hiding, fearing for her life. A photograph of Nkonyana and three other women was published in the South African weekly newspaper The Sunday Times. Those friends are now also at risk of violence.
In 1996, South Africa became the first country to include sexual orientation in its constitution as a status protected from discrimination. Significant legal progress has followed, including the Constitutional Court’s decision on December 1 to open full marriage rights to same-sex couples. However, amid a crisis of expanding violent crime and sexual assault of women, evidence suggests that lesbians may be particularly targeted for brutal repression in their families and communities.
In a joint report with the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission in 2003, Human Rights Watch documented patterns of violent harassment of lesbians and the particular vulnerability of black and mixed-race lesbians in South African townships. The report called on the South African government to undertake public education campaigns on sexual orientation and gender identity, and to create more effective mechanisms to hear complaints and counter discrimination and abuse.
“Zoliswa’s murder tragically shows that violence against lesbians continues,” said Stern. “The South African government must promote equality and diversity through public education to ensure lesbians’ right to security.”
Nkonyana’s funeral was attended by her partner and more than 400 people from the community. The first ever gay pride march in the township of Guguletu outside of Cape Town took place February 19 in her honor.


And then we get another death in Johannesburg, of a teen, just a teenager of age 16 years, she was still in matric, and she was used to be known as a champion. It was sad to be in that funeral, mainly seeing the baby dyke's crying and I believe they are asking themselves that where are they going? , I felt that i have seen enough and at a stage that I am in now, and lucky I have survived, she was going some where, she was going to make us proud and now she is gone. I put myself in her shoes, I see myself crying for help, and there is no one, I mean no one, even the family, friends, neighbours and even the dogs. We have sister who go out there and get raped, killed, assaulted and discriminated. I ask myself that why us, where are we going from here? keeping quite wont help, nor speaking wont help, but what can we do?. her funeral took place April 21 and I expected a number of lesbian women there, but it was just to little (minorities as always), I also expected support from other organisation and still did not see any (only OUT-LGBT Well being and AIDS Consortium), and we say in solidarity with the women who speak out. I hope that with all the love we say we have, and all the anger we say we have, with all the changes we want to make in our country, we should learn by mistakes, and stand for one another. only God know why us, not only us (lesbian women) but women in general. We should get together and try to take care of ourlives because people are destroying ourlives. Why us?, why cant we be ourselves than to be afraid all the time.
sources: Behind the mask (february 2006)